Thread:Penny1256/@comment-31132062-20170204214134/@comment-27140893-20170314181310

I've been bottling this up because it's not my business, I'm just a bystander in this whole situation. However enough is enough, and I'd appreciate if everyone hear me out regardless of who's job it is to reply.

This whole drama could of been avoidable in the first place if everybody knew how to manage this wiki as a whole, and learned some empathy instead of letting these pathetic emotions get in the way.

Admittedly, a lot of us started out as a naïve under-aged user. Especially since the wiki we all came from appeals to a younger age group. And the fact you so harshly put a punishment on someone that you called a friend, or at least though so, just so you could look mature is... is... I don't even know what to call it. Poor management? If this community was larger, I'd understand banning an under-aged user. but honestly there's like 5 of us what And even when responding to a semi-serious situation, the staff and community still seemed to react with immaturity just because they were a little angry.

I think its ridiculous everybody would talk about Penny behind her back and not have the courage to go up to her face (well, metaphorically since this is virtual) and say it. Whenever someone would make a rude comment, everyone seemed to chime in. was it because you agreed, or was it because you were trying to look mature? I'm really confused on that. If you have something to say, if you don't think that you could go up and say it directly to them, best to just keep your mouth shut. And tell me, if she wasn't really everyone's friend, then why did you talk to her? Role-play with her? Were you using her, or were you just too scared to say anything? It now looks like you were looking for an excuse to get rid of her. So if you feel like Penny was the one who threw away their friend's trust, think twice.

And no, I'm not on her side either. Making sock-puppets and then getting angry when those get banned too is just as bad. And then stealing an OC out of jealousy is completely unacceptable. Returning the hate is unacceptable. This kind of behavior, if anything, is what we should be banning people for.

This situation doesn't have to be as serious as it is. It's barely worth anybody's time, yet here I am, writing a book about it just so everyone will pull their goddamn acts together.

thanks