Thread:WendigoLamet/@comment-34928186-20190724003740/@comment-36459171-20190724021943

there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being asexual, genderfluid, transgender etc!! the way in which you were taught was a very toxic way and i hate that you had to go through that, no one deserves that.

having your identity invalidated by people because they don’t agree with it is terrible. there are so many lgbtqia+ folks in the world, at this point theres no evidence that says that being straight and cishet is needed to live. hell, theres even gay couples in the animal kingdom!

lets break it down:

1) “you cant be trans because they dont exist and being gay is a choice, theres only 2 genders”

trans people exist and are valid, just because YOU think youre a woman Karen doesnt mean that immediately everyone else feels the same. sometimes men’s souls are born into women’s bodies, sometimes women’s souls are born into men’s bodies,,, genderfluid and nonbinary souls simply exist outside the gender binary and cant be restricted to just boy or girl. trans people are here, they are walking and breathing, they are changing their outside to match their inside. cis people do it all the time! they get all these cosmetic surgeries so they can match their dream image, what makes it different from trans people?

if you’re gay, you’re gay, only YOU know and no one else can tell you otherwise. personally i dont think being gay is a choice, the same goes for asexual, bi, pan, demi, and aro folk. its something that was ingrained in you, its a part of you, it just may take time to accept it, especially in a world where people are harmed because of it. out of the 7 billion people theres bound to be diversity outside the straight and cis norm.

2) “my friends didnt accept me being genderfluid”

thats awful, im sorry you had to go through that, but you are not alone! there are so many people just like you, they may not be your best friends but they exist. as your internet friend i 10000% support you and i will fight anyone who dare oppose you. i will personally stab them with my nonbinary flag pole and make brass knuckles out of ace rings.

theres always going to be people trying to drag you down, Erron, ive recently had to deal with my ex which was an incredibly toxic and manipulative person and even today im having to heal. there will be bad days, and there will be good days, but know that the bad days will not last forever.

you shouldnt need rights to be yourself- just do it! if youre ace and genderfluid, so be it! i support you!! i stan!! and no one can change my mind!! i got your back !!